I learned that both parties have faults in any conflict or misunderstanding. That's why, either of the two can be the first to confront the other. To forgive is one of the ways in achieving excellence!
Why? It is because being forgiving is one of the characteristics of the One who is really excellent, GOD, the Author of Excellence! So, let's show our excellence by forgiving!
BUT don't let anyone to abuse your forgiving heart; this is not what God wants us to be. He wants us to be strong and brave, to be shrewd, yet forgiving and innocent in evil ways.
You know what??? We always hurt somebody who really loves us. We hurt Him intentionally and maybe not intentionally but certainly we hurt Him more than we know.
He is God, our Lord, who always sees us, not only what we do but also our hearts. We should now ask God to forgive us from all our sins. Accept and believe that Jesus is the only way to heaven, and that He is God and our only Savior. He died and was rose again that we may have eternal life. Don’t wait for tomorrow because we don’t know if tomorrow will come.